Friday, November 26, 2010

All It Takes Is A Little PUSH....

Notice a change? Yup! My title is longer and a bit different from my usual ones. Now the title is inspired work actually. See I have been watching "The Dark Knight" a lot these days, and loved the dialogues. So I wanted to use atleast one of them. ( Its an awesome movie by the way! Do watch it if you have not.) And there is the part in the end where the Joker (Heath Ledger) tells Batman "Madness is like Gravity... All it needs is a little PUSH!"
But I am not going to talk about madness today, something else.

Here I was, sitting in a place which I would not like to mention (:P), thinking about what to write. As often as I have noticed, whenever I do write something on my blog, its always related to the period which I am having. So, a couple of months ago, when I was writing all the humorous posts, I was quite happy and care-free about life (which doesn't mean I was not responsible!) And nowadays only serious thoughts have been coming in my mind!


So here I was, sitting  "somewhere", doing some introspection. As I was going through my past month, I noticed that academically, I had started the month badly, and had ended it very well (which hopefully gets reflected  in my results :P). I also remembered the lull period in between, which saw me utterly demoralized, low on self-confidence and doubting my abilities (Yes, that is what IIT does to you :P). However, after talking it over to a person, I got lifted, motivated and begun to work as hard as ever. Which is what got me wondering as to what that person had told me, which got me so charged up and motivated.

As I begun to trace back the conversation, I collected hazy memories and could hardly remember the words told to me. Hardly a sign of an important conversation right?

Isn't a motivating speech supposed to be remembered for atleast more than a month? I mean, if it got you charged up, motivated, raring-to-go, would you not remember it? However, as hard as I tried to remember (which worsened things, because when you try to remember something hard, it always ends up being forgotten) I just could not recollect what that person had told me.

So was that conversation not motivating or useful? Not at all, it got me motivated and still keeps me motivated even though I don't remember it. So what was it?

After a lot of thinking, I finally came to a conclusion. And the conclusion was that- Along with the motivation given by the person, there was one thing which was extremely important which was needed to complement the motivation. And that was "Intent". Yes it was the intent that made the difference. It was also because of the fact that I WANTED to be motivated and I WANTED the things that I aimed for, that I actually got motivated. Of course, I'll not take anything away from the person who did try to motivate me!

The point is that you can bring in the Best Oratar in this world or the Best Motivational Speaker, but if the intent is not there, its never gonna happen!!

The other thing that I got out of the whole thing was the fact that it was the smallest thing which got us motivated. Those things are so small, that you can't recollect them after some days. However, they keep you motivated throughout!

Life is a journey, and a journey is full of ups and downs. You always need motivation to complete your journey. There are times, when you lose focus of your goals or the Big Picture, but I strongly believe that if you have the intent, you will always keep getting motivated, no matter what. (Modern day version of- If there is a will, there is a way! :P) So just get out there, and go get your goal!!

P.S- I Like Writing Serious Posts.  :) And I guess they'll keep coming until I am in a better place than I am now! :)

11 comments:

  1. Some interesting thoughts put down in this post Shaish. You know,I'd just like to add to what you've written. Sometimes, 'SELF-MOTIVATION' can be the best thing.If the situation or the people around you aren't very encouraging, you can still keep going on and giving it your best shot, if "YOU" choose to keep going. Like you've rightly pointed out, if you want to be motivated, that's the only time, any words of wisdom from someone else will actually appeal to you, because it goes along with the intention you have in mind as well.

    So, keep going!!! From observing and talking to Ankit and Vinit over the past couple of years, I've also realised that IIT is full of ups and downs. Don't get too carried away with the 'highs', and don't allow the 'lows' to get to you or pull you down.Stay focussed and yes, keep yourself 100% MOTIVATED. Without a doubt, you'll outshine yourself and others as well.

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  2. Thanks a lot miss.. :)
    And yeah if you get a chance then do wish Vinit and Ankit best of luck from my side... :)

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  3. And yeah miss, please do try and post on your blog..

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  4. hey hi,
    this is the first blog i am commenting on because i just loved it above all the others.....its really good.its really motivating......keep wriring...
    pooja.

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  5. hey...u know i think i might actually start writing a blog of my own...but of course i am clouded with doubts if anyone will actually read it...will definitely think about the idea of starting a blog when i am sitting somewhere...hehe
    till den keep up the good work...
    and a small piece of advice.. whenever you are feeling down and out and demotivated think of all the people who are dying , who are sad, who have just lost their loved ones, who are helpless.....your troubles will seem small in comparison...and you will be rejuvenated with new vigour....always works with me...

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  6. Don't worry I will read your blog if you write one. :)
    I didn't know you read my blog too.. Thanks for reading..!
    And yeah thanks for the piece of advice. I'll keep that in mind :)

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  7. I just read it for the first time yesterday. actually saili told me about it a long time back but i remembered it yesterday...
    my exams started today ..but i was in no mood to study as usual so i read your blog...
    and i gave it a lot of thought ...i will definitely start my blog as soon as my exams will get over... and i will also read all your blogs soon...

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  8. Okay cool!
    Do tell me when you write your blog :)

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  10. hey dude ..... it was a gud read..... just a tad too serious .... what can i do , i am still addicted to the humorous awesome posts you used to write in the holidays..... but it was quite motivational ..... you are quite the motivator, i know this because you were the first one who motivated me to write a blog !!!!! keep writing dude..... i suggest you try a goofy short story ( the insanity rush of writing one brings the seriousness down and keep the stress levels in check)

    @ MADHU: we write blogs cause we like writing stuff we believe about ..... dont worry if people dont read your blog (you'll find that the first person to comment on your blog will b you and the comment will be "pls comment" :p).... best of luck with your blog (at least when you type your name on google, you'll have one hit which totally belongs to you :P)
    P.S: read my blog :P :)

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  11. Hey Shaishav.. I read your blog at last, stupid hsc exams got over today.. The blog was really great!! I guess we'll see your serious writing skills now :P
    Well according to me you surely don't "need" motivation if as you said, you have the intent, just a little talk with your dear ones about the problem is quite enough to get ( at least a person like you ) started and back on your feet..
    Hope your IIT venture is filled with ups and no downs at all..:)

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